Recently I met someone who just realised that He's got a problem. He said "All my life I have been blaming people and very offended at the way I have been treated but never looked at my own attitudes and my flaws" This person has had a failed marriage&had a lot of financial problems because He has been unable to stay in a job. You will never move forward if you're blind to yourself deficiencies and only see what others are not doing right. Can you look inward & pray that Christ be formed in you! God bless!!!